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One of the joys of having children: really interesting social interactions with strangers.

 


Something no one ever prepared me for was the fact that once I began reproducing, every stranger on earth would find it socially acceptable to share whatever was on their mind with me. Andy doesn't seem to have any weird stranger stories for me, so maybe my mommyness creates an ambience of kinship around others who are needing to share their humanity. Whatever it is, I've learned to just accept it as a normal part of my day.

For example, as the girls and I were walking home from the library, we saw a man, who I would guess to be in his late fifties, walking up to the library, towards us. As he approached us, he blocked our path on the sidewalk and said, without introduction:

"What do you call a squirrel's nest?"

Maybe it has to do with being the parent of four relatively small and silly kids, but the question didn't seem all that abnormal. I just decided to play along. 

"Hmmm. I don't know...what?" I dramatically pondered.

He gave us a grin and replied, "A nutcracker suite!" and chuckled and went on his merry way.

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Chris
  August 9, 2011 10:23am

Amy, I am always amazed how many stranger talk to ME on a regular basis. I am a pretty private person and do not usually enjoy engaging strangers in conversation. Quite often when I am out at the Mall or a restaurant someone will engage me in small talk. I think my lack of outgoingness can be traced back to my childhood when every "old" guy would call me Red even if they didn't know me, since every red headed kid is nicknamed Red!!
Sara
  August 9, 2011 11:16am

This is exactly what makes traveling with kids so muchmore enriched than traveling without... People automatically have a bond with you and take you into their culture without question. We made so many awesome connections in Japan for the pure fact that we have "KAWAIIIIIII!!!!" kids.
Monica
  August 17, 2011 4:19pm

I have strangers ask me where items are in Wal-Mart, whether or not I have the kids with me. And, yes, I'm a former Wal-Mart associate, but I don't wear my old vest nametag to shop in. I guess I just look like I know where everything is. Which, since I shop there twice a month and have for 10 years, I probably do. :)
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